Below are the general rules for using this forum:
1. Listen actively – respect what others have written.
2. Speak from your own experience instead of generalizing ("I" instead of "they," "we," and "you").
3. Do not be afraid to respectfully challenge one another by asking questions, but refrain from personal attacks – focus on ideas.
4. Participate to the fullest of your ability – community growth depends on the inclusion of every individual voice.
5. Instead of invalidating somebody else's story with your own spin on her or his experience, share your own story and experience.
6. The goal is not to agree – it is to gain a deeper understanding.
7. Be conscious that there are no body language clues nor are there any nonverbal responses in your writing.
8. Ensure your words are not disrespectful.
Please observe these rules before posting........ thank you